My boyfriend says he's gay but I've found him sexting women on dating apps twice | The Sun

My boyfriend says he's gay but I've found him sexting women on dating apps twice | The Sun


DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD only just started to trust my boyfriend again when I discovered more suspicious messages between him and another woman.

I am a 29-year-old gay man and my partner is 32. We have been together for almost a year. He told me he was gay.

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And we had a great relationship, with him making me feel like part of his family.

But six months ago I discovered he was on two different dating apps at the same time under two different names.

The big shock was that he was chatting to women, one in particular.

When I confronted him, he said he was simply curious and nothing would come of it.

It’s taken me months to trust him again.

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But yesterday I looked at his phone and he’d downloaded the same apps again and was sexting another woman.

I don’t think I can believe anything he tells me now.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your trust has been shattered.

Whether he is gay, straight or bisexual, sexting is a form of cheating.

It will drain the energy from your relationship and he is showing no respect for your feelings.

He would likely be horrified if you were behaving in the same way.

Knowing where you stand will actually be less stressful than living with such uncertainty, so ask him outright how he feels about you.

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If you are still not convinced that he is being honest, move on.

You deserve much better.

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