I have hot lesbian fantasies… while having boring sex with my husband

DEAR DEIDRE: DESPITE being happily married to a man for 16 years, I now think I am a lesbian.

We got hitched when I was 22. He’s now 42, I’m 38 and we have two sons together. We were childhood sweethearts and I never regretted settling down so young.

But I have begun to realise my husband doesn’t turn me on. If we’re in bed together, I imagine I am with another woman – that is the only thing that does it for me.

I regret not experimenting more when I was younger and am even considering asking my husband for a threesome to test my theory.

Or do I need to accept I’ll never know sexual fulfilment?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Sexuality is rarely black and white, but on a spectrum, so it’s entirely possible that who you find attractive can change. While a threesome may seem the answer, it will only complicate things.

You may cause trust issues and your partner might become insecure.

Talk with him about what you feel is missing. There might be things he can do, both in and out of the bedroom, to satisfy you.

I’m sending you my help pack Bisexual Issues, with information on where to find support.

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