Sexpert reveals the ‘selfish’ bedroom habit which could end your relationship – and it's all down to 'laziness'

A SEXPERT has revealed the "selfish" bedroom habit which could end your relationship – and it's all down to "laziness".

Writing for news.com.au, Nadia Bokody, 36, from Sydney, said masturbation is "foundational to any healthy relationship" and both she and her boyfriend pleasure themselves separately.

She added: "There are few things more toxic to a thriving sex life than w*nk-policing – the act of putting boundaries around (or even banning) a partner’s masturbatory habits."

Despite this, Nadia insisted: "I don’t think anyone should masturbate during a relationship if it’s in place of sex."

She added: "If you’re getting off solo to supplement sex because it’s less work, you’re being a jerk (no pun intended)."

Surveys have shown the average man masturbates up to seven times a week, while the average couple has sex just once in the same time period.

In response to this, Nadia said: "Which begs the question, are men just being lazy?"

But when Nadia confronted her own boyfriend about this assumption, as he rarely initiates sex, he admitted it was because she had rejected him a couple of times, which had hurt his feelings.

Nadia concluded: "While masturbation shouldn’t replace sex in a relationship, your partner’s masturbatory habits aren’t necessarily a reflection of their investment in your physical intimacy.

"The only way you’re likely to discover if your partner is checked out of the bedroom, is to open a conversation about it."

Nadia previously said a cushion could be a "game-changer" to having better orgasms.

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